THESOULSTRATEGIST:
A Creation Coach
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Increasingly, the masses are feeling more stressed, stuck, and even hopeless. Many feel like they have little control over their lives, as if something is actively holding them back.
They feel that being, doing, having what they want is simply out of reach.
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Some time ago, I realized that helping others is one of my most satisfying life passions/purposes, and perhaps one of my greatest gifts.
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I established THESOULSTRATEGIST to help people discover and utilize their inner power to create all they want in their lives—personally, relationally, or professionally. I help them to re-claim, elevate and navigate their lives more efficiently and effectively.
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I accomplish this primarily by sharing the insights, wisdom, knowledge, processes, and strategies I have gleaned from a lifetime of diverse experiences and intentional learning.
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I have a track record of accurately assessing situations, pinpointing their "root" causes, and subsequently formulating solutions that produce positive results.
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Let me put my abilities to work for YOU.
I will help get you from where you are to where you want to be...
WHY THESOULSTRATEGIST
The Soul
One's soul is the essence of their individuality, their most authentic self. It encompasses reason, beliefs, character, feelings, and behavior. It is also the place where most of our deepest desires originate. While souls differ distinctly from mindsets, the two are very closely connected. Our mindsets are where the actualization, or impediment, of our soul's desired outcomes begin.
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The Strategist
A strategist is one who helps identify desired outcomes, assesses the paths to reach them, develops a plan, then mobilizes the resources to execute focused actions.
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Simply put, as TheSOULstrategist, I help people actualize the personal, relational, and/or professional outcomes they desire.
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WHAT I DO
An excerpt from "The Journey" with Pastor Mike (FCBCNYC)
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My primary focus is helping people self-actualize and elevate their lives; mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, socially, and financially. I help them discover and direct their internal powers of creation to actualize the life outcomes they desire.
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Virtually every occurrence in our lives, whether positive or negative, right or wrong, is created by energy. This energy is described by many names and usually depends upon one’s faith system, some include, "universal energy", "spiritual energy", "creation energy", and "God energy". I, however, prefer and will use the term Divine energy ("De").
This internal energy exists in each of us, and we each have the ability to direct it to create exactly what we want from life. However, we must first understand the laws and principles that govern them.
A key component of this governance of energy is mindset. It determines how we show up and perform for the situations, opportunities, challenges we encounter daily.
Despite our greatest efforts, life is not always a straight flat track. Hurdles of varying heights and difficulties often arise in our paths. Many require adjustments that we just may not be prepared to implement, or even see, on our own. This is where I come in. I help get my clients to their chosen finish lines and beyond.
Many of the challenges and hinderances that people face, even "successful" high achievers, are self-manifested. Occurrences in our lives can produce deep-rooted emotions like anxiety, fear, and stress which in turn can produce self-doubt, overthinking, second guessing, feelings of inadequacy, impostor syndrome, and other limiting thoughts.
Typically, work with my clients begins with seeking clear understandings of who THEY are, what they are, where they are in their lives, and what they ultimately want to be and achieve. I then develop a customized plan to align, or re-align, their mindsets with their desired outcomes and help implement it.
The key components of each client's plan are an initial assessment of where they are, an identifying and establishing of their desired outcomes, a listing of the strategies, processes, techniques, tasks that we will implement together, and a clear set of evaluation metrics.
Ultimately, I help my clients make empowering changes to live more successfully, abundantly, and in fulfillment. I help them utilize what I call The Creation Code. It is a formula of creation that encompasses visualizing images of one's desires, focusing positive thoughts and feelings on them, directing action towards them, and connecting to Divine energy.
The Creation Code:
Visualize + Focus + Direct + Connect = Creation
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I Am Currently Accepting New Clients For:
- Personal Development Guidance/Mentoring/Coaching (GMC) (Individual)
- Relational GMC (Individual)
- Professional GMC (Individual and Corporate Programs)
My Primary Areas of Focus Include:
Personal
- General Life Navigation/Enhancement
- Desired Outcome Actualization
- Mindset Development and/or Management
- Situation Management/Coping (Pivots, Transitions, Challenges, Adjustments, Etc.)
- Creating Enduring Confidence
- Increasing Discipline, Motivation and Inspiration
- Conquering Procrastination
- Nurturing General Well-being (Mentally, Emotional, Spiritual, and Physically)
- Increasing Social/Emotional Intelligence
- Personal Presentation (Brand Development/Image Alignment)
- Refining Comportment and Deportment
- Developing Positive/Healthy Masculinity (Developing Modern Gentlemen)
Relational
- General Relationship Attraction/Navigation
- "Womanese": Helping Men Understand Feminine Nature, Language, and Actions
- "Man Literacy": Helping Women Understand Masculine Nature, Language, and Actions
Professional
- Entrepreneurial Support
- Individual Performance Elevation In The Workplace
- Identifying and utilizing personal assets
- Identifying and transforming personal challenges/liabilities
- Developing more effective communication skills
- Increasing personal efficiency and productivity
- Developing workplace increased confidence and leadership abilities
- Developing workplace specific social/emotional intelligence
- Improving states of individual well-being in the workplace
- Corporate Performance Elevation Programs (individuals and teams)
- BIPOC specific programs
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WHY I DO WHAT I DO
I am blessed to have solid advisors, mentors, coaches, and supporters in my life that I can call upon to help me be the person I strive to be; one constantly vibrating at higher and higher levels.
Unfortunately, there are many far less fortunate than I, who are moving "rudderlessly" through the uncharted waters of life with little to no real guidance navigating their way. Most probably feel a void, but don't really know what they're missing or where to turn to find it. It is my mission to help as many of these people as possible find and maintain more positive and satisfying courses to elevate their lives. I formally established "The Soul Strategist" to assist a wider audience in need of this type of support.
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MY APPROACH/STYLE
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My approach/style is uniquely holistic, meaning that I take into account ALL the facets that made up the individual. I personally am an amalgamation of the empirical, the methodical, the intuitive, the physical, and the spiritual. As such, a large part of my approach is connecting with the divine energies that exist in each of us, then understanding and utilizing the laws/principles that govern them to actualize my client's life desires.
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Actualization of any outcome most often begins with one's mindset. Mindset is particularly important as it reflects the visions, words, attitudes, thoughts, beliefs, opinions, assumptions, and methods we embody. It ultimately shapes our habits, and subsequently, what we think, feel, focus on, do, and create. It helps define our individual identities, our souls.
I, therefore, focus heavily on the importance of managing sensory intake, refining visions, adjusting language, and developing perspectives/processes at the conscious level that imprint positively on the subconscious, and ultimately actualize through the superconscious, the center of manifestation we each possess.
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Another key component of my approach is "critical thinking". I am a result driven critical thinker who, when necessary, will tell you what you may not want to hear and illuminate what you may not want to see, so that you can become who, and accomplish what you might not have believed you could.
I am a proven voice of reason, a provider of perspective, a developer of direction, and a facilitator of hope and faith.
I am a creative man of solid spirituality and faith, who is continuously striving to be a more thoughtful, understanding, compassionate, nurturing, and "at peace" human being.
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Over the years, I have developed a personal mindset balanced by faith, logic, and creativity. This mindset joined with the tools I have acquired and cultivated along my journey equip me to help others consistently produce successes.
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If any of this resonates with you, click here to schedule your initial consultation and let's get started...
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WHAT QUALIFIES ME
To be clear, I am NOT a therapist. I AM a guide, a mentor, a coach, a motivator, a supporter, and more. As such, my most compelling qualifications are:
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My Diverse Life Experiences
It is said that "experience is the best teacher, and the worst experiences teach the best lessons". Well, my life's experiences and all I've gleaned from them have truly taught me well. My personal experiences and interactions over the years have been diverse, unique, and innumerable. There have been tremendous successes, potentially devastating challenges, and significant lessons. Each has provided its own unique and invaluable insights, wisdom, and perspectives.
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My Academic Training
I am a graduate of The Georgia Institute of Technology, one of the most exclusive and prestigious universities in the world. The education and training I received there and subsequently through the years have produced a mindset and skills that enable me to see most situations from myriad perspectives, then process the information to produce solutions for myself and all those I work with.
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My Continuous Education
I am an eternal student, an intentional leaner. In addition to my own experiences and situations, I am continuously observing, researching, analyzing, and just experiencing everything around me. I work extremely hard to remain open to seeing things from as many varied perspectives as possible. I am continuously learning and evolving. And as I do, I and those around me benefit.
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My Spirituality and Faith
I am a man of solid spirituality and faith. Many may see these attributes as contradictory to my logical and analytical mind. However, I see them all as inherently complimentary and mutually essential to the human existence. In fact, I strongly believe that there are times when we must visualize desired outcomes BEFORE there is any evidence of them. Sometimes, we must even see and believe beyond the "facts", and even in the face of contradictory "evidence".
Our spirituality leads us to our beliefs, our beliefs form the foundations for our faith, and these all subsequently contribute to our mindsets. I rely heavily on my spirituality and faith, and where relevant, help those I work with to identify and utilize their own faith (whatever that may be) in realizing their goals.
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My Nature
The essence of my nature is caring, empathetic, nurturing, intuitive, and compassionate. These attributes are balanced by my hard-driving logical being and undergird my ability to be understanding and supportive while keeping my clients focused and moving on task.
My Prior Work and Results
I have worked with and produced quantifiable successes for myself and countless others. Whether helping deal with a particular situation, make an important life pivot, achieve a specific goal, or find a soulmate, I thrive on helping my clients actualize THEIR desired outcomes. Working with me gets results!!!
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This all said, YOU are the best judge of whether I'm qualified to help YOU. If I sound like the type of journey partner you're looking for, click here to discover more about what I offer and get started...
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WHO BENEFITS FROM COACHING
Too often, coaching is sought only when there is an acute issue, challenge or difficulty. However, it can actually be a vital component of one's overall personal development and life elevation/enhancement. It has been directly tied to excellence in almost every field of human endeavor and is integral in taking success to higher levels, and ultimately, mastery. So, who benefits from coaching? Basically, EVERYONE!!!
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Even many of the world's most "successful" and notable individuals have publicly acknowledged engaging personal coaches to help them "up their game" from time to time.
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As your GMC, I will:
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Be your confidant and sounding board
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Help you identify, reframe or re-direct your visions, thoughts, attitudes, and processes where necessary
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Help you develop a balanced mindset that aligns with YOUR beliefs, values and goals
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Help you elevate your performance across the board or in a particular area
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Tell you like it is and provide clear, impartial, objective perspectives
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Look for things in you that you may not see in yourself
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Help you identify and improve upon your strengths, talents and gifts
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Help you identify and transform any limiting habits and challenges
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Help you increase your confidence
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Help motivate you to take action
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Help you avoid making unoriginal mistakes
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Be your journey partner and cheerleader
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Be your accountability partner
Whatever outcomes YOU would like to actualize, I will help you get results. Click here and let's get started...
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WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
Follow Me
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Work With Me One-On-One
I love working one-on-one to develop and implement programs specific to YOUR needs. To book an initial exploratory consultation click here.
Participate In My Discussions And Programs
I have developed and host a number of virtual discussions and other programs related to general and specific personal, relational, and professional issues. To find out more, click here.
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Book Me
In some way, shape, or form, I have been publicly guiding, training, speaking for as long as I can remember. I am now available for bookings as a "keynote", panelist, or program presenter. I have worked with organizations of varying types and sizes including, professional, youth, church, entertainment, and corporations. I have been a guest on panels and podcasts, and, I have appeared as a subject matter expert for various media outlets. If you think I might be right for your next event, click here and let's talk.
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TESTIMONIALS
JOHN
(Attorney, Professional DJ)
”Once or twice in a lifetime you meet a person like Ron who enables you to see through the fog and clutter of your daily life and truly focus so that you can achieve meaningful goals. Ron provides that clarity for me. He enabled me to have the confidence and determination to begin a second career in my 60's that is totally unrelated to my previous profession as a corporate attorney. Ron truly is a creative visionary and a change agent.”
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Stephanie
(Head Designer For A Major Luxury Fashion Brand)
”They say that people come into our lives for a reason, just when you need them most. I can attest to my serendipitous meeting of Ron being just that. While I was most certainly not seeking a guide or mentor, that is precisely what I found. Ron is an active listener and makes me feel like I can comfortably share what I'm feeling or going through. His soft-spoken, yet authoritative demeanor combined with his own life lessons and masterful insights enable him to give unmatched advice in both a professional and personal capacity. I value each tidbit of wisdom he passes to me and continue to reap the benefits.”
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ANTHONY
(Operating Partner of a Private Equity Firm)
"I have known Ron for many years and have engaged his services in various capacities. Initially, he guided me in developing a personal style that truly reflected my core essence, comportment, and deportment while perfectly aligning with my role as a SVP of a Fortune 500 company. Later, as I transitioned into the private equity space, Ron's expertise helped me make subtle adjustments, both internally and externally, that seamlessly realigned me with the quite different corporate culture of that industry. Ron has proven to be an invaluable and trusted advisor, confidant, consultant, and guiding conscience. His gifts and talents set him apart. His exceptional listening skills allow him to identify obstacles effectively and craft actionable solutions, which has been the bedrock of our long-standing relationship. In essence, Ron's unparalleled dedication to helping others makes him a truly exceptional individual.”
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LORI
(Educator Administrator, Student Engagement Specialist, & Media Personality)
"What can I say. Ron is a mentor and confidant turned true friend, who helps me navigate this thing called life. His wisdom, wit, candor, and patience keep our sessions productive and flowing organically. His insights and perspectives help me stay on a success track both personally and professionally as I continue building my media and student engagement businesses. Ron's genuine passion for helping others and his holistic approach to coaching keep me continuously progressing towards my full potential. He sees in me what I often can't see myself. This has enabled me to achieve goals that I didn't think I could."
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DARREN
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(Co-Founder & CEO of HOME-OMETRY, Entrepreneur, Motivational Speaker)
"I have benefitted greatly from my relationship with Ron. The many relationship and business conversations we've had and the guidance he's provided could fill a book. Ron's ability to cut through the crap to see the problem and, more importantly, his skill of developing effective solutions have proven invaluable. They have kept me from wasting so much time and energy overthinking things. Whether managing businesses/career, pursuing personal goals, or dealing with relationship issues, Ron has been an invaluable resource."
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MARCUS
(Business Investor, Owner of a Development/Construction Company)
"I was at a crossroads in a long-term relationship and needed to make a decision about what direction to take. Frustrated, I was referred to Ron. He helped me take a tough look at myself, my partner and my situation. He shared numerous insights and provided some of the amazing tools that he's developed, including what he calls "Unique Life Metrics" (ULMs), "Core Values List" (CVL), and "Desired Partner Qualities" (DPQs). Using these tools, I was able to see my situation more clearly and make some difficult decisions for my life. I am now dating more intentionally and purposefully. The process of finding a compatible partner is now less stressful, more productive, and more enjoyable. Thanks Ron!!!!!!"
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RichARD
(Former Professional Tennis Player, Country Club Director/Coach, Real Estate Investor, Founder of a Major Sports Apparel Brand)
”I reached out to Mr. D seeking guidance with my romantic relationship. As we worked through the issues, he helped me to see and transform aspects of me that negatively impacted my relationships across the board, romantic, familial and professional. My work centers around client interactions and service. Working with Mr. D helped me develop a mindset that has evolved the way I interact with people personally, socially, and professionally. As a result, I have found greater peace and satisfaction in all that I do. Applying his processes, I am continually seeing significant positive advancement in my romantic and professional lives.”
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